Tea with Abi ☕

  Entitlement and Intelligence Intelligence plays an important role in our day-to-day activities. It determines the type of work we do, the spaces we occupy, how people perceive us and even how we interact with others. Intelligent people have superior cognitive abilities that enables them to complete tasks more efficiently, whereas less intelligent people need to work a bit harder in order to complete the same tasks. This is the neural system’s innate ability and there is nothing that we as humans can do to change this, hence we say you are born with it . Now while this is true, there are also people who are hardworking and just as smart, but intelligence seems to be used as a higher level of measured intellect. We give a higher compliment when we tell someone that they are intelligent as opposed to when we tell them they are hardworking. Already you can see that there is an invisible hierarchy that exists, and   that in my opinion adds to an individual’s sense of entitlement.    

Coaches don’t play - they used to play.   Disclaimer: I’m not a relationship expert . I am merely sharing my  observations ,  some  of  which   you’ve   probably seen,  heard of or  experienced  for yourself . If that is the case, let this post serve as a reminder.  Love is one of the most profound  experiences  know n  to human beings. It’s the one thing we’re all capable of doing.  It exists in many forms ,  but romantic love seems to be the most sought after. Many people seek to express themselves in romantic relationships with a compatible partner . A nd for them ,  romantic relationships  compromise  one of the most meaningful aspects of life ,  and serve   as a source of deep fulfilment . As with most valued treasures in this world, we run into trouble pursuing romantic love.  The questions many of us ask ourselves are:  Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail every time despite trying so hard?  My own question is this:  why   do we  suck at relationships ?   I  will